Right, probably. So we'd be focusing on the concupiscent quadrants then!

[He circles the heart and spade.]

Now, the kind of advice I give you depends on if you feel pity or hatred for the target of your affections. I take it that like most humans you've already got enough experience with matespritship, given how your entire fucking species somehow managed to evolve to only care about that quadrant. But none of you seem to appreciate the finer nuances of the properly-pitched, deep hatred that makes up a good kismesis.